" The first step towards getting somewhere is to decide that you are not going to stay where you are. " - Unknown

 

 

Father's Day came and went, and it was yet another one of those days that we can not stop, it will take us hostage with emotion and we have to figure out how to break free from the chains of sadness, and despair.  This year we had planned to do some fun things in memory of Dad...  We sent messages to Heaven on balloons.. We swam, we made his favorite meal and decided that we would always keep that as our new tradition. 

 

The morning started off a little rocky...  Actually, Saturday started off a little rocky.  I got a call from Brett and he was really missing his dad.  We cried together on the phone and all I can do is let them all know that even though he is not here in the physical world, he is here, in our hearts and watching over us.  We continue to take comfort in that. 

 

Can't stay in this space, so we continue to move forward....With that being said, I am planning us some road trips and some fun things for the summer.  ( If I survive the summer with these two little guys :) )

 

We are trying to stay in a positive space.  The beach helps us accomplish that daily.  It's the best therapy that I have ever found...  Again, I am grateful for the people in my life today, that even when it's ugly they still continue to love us through it.  The best gift I ever could have gotten from Jeff, learning to love people no matter what.

 

We will continue to have firsts through this process to the progress, but as long as at the end of the day we are progressing, we are succeeding. 

 

Hugs, and Love to you all

 

The gang of H's